Stylized triptych portrait of Jerome Robert Smith in a tuxedo

In Loving Memory of

JeromeRobert Smith

June 18, 1983 · April 21, 2021

Our well loved son, husband, father, brother and friend, who brought joy, laughter and natural talent everywhere he went. This is where we keep speaking to you, Jerome, in our own words, in pictures, in our family's own voices. Because, "It is what it is…"

Sunrise

June 18, 1983

Sunset

April 21, 2021

Remembered

Every single day

The people you belonged to

You belonged to all of us, and we still belong to you.

Parents
Bishop Beverly Deshazer Haywood · Bishop H.D. Haywood Sr.
Wife
Valencia Smith
Children
Sareah Reaces · Jamysyn Smith · Davontae · Jayvion Smith · Janiyah Smith · Frederick “Freddie” Ware
Siblings
Levelle Smith · Keywon Brown · Timothy “TJ” Smith · Tyara Brown-Nielsen · Herbert “DJ” Haywood · Joseph Haywood · Jhe’Nae Haywood · Hillary Wilkerson · Alayah Haywood

From the timeline

Our Messages to Jerome, with Love…

Bishop Beverly Deshazer Haywood, his mother

April 2021

“My son Jerome, I will miss him so…”

Family dressed in white gathered around Jerome's white casket at the graveside
The day we laid him to rest, all of us in white for him.

Levelle Smith

October 2021

I went to visit my brother's grave tonight after they finally installed his headstone after 6 months. Reality hit me as soon as I saw it. He's really gone.

Words can't explain how I feel right now. I miss him so much and I want him here. NGL, I beat myself up sometimes because I feel like I should have been there for him more than I have. I love you, Jerome Smith.

Life is so short and we can lose a loved one in a blink of an eye. Cherish the moments you have with your family and friends, because we don't know when our time will come. We make plans for the future not knowing if we will be here to see it. Live in the present as if it were your last.

Jerome Robert Smith's black granite headstone, engraved with his portrait, a cross and a dove
SMITH · Jerome · Sunrise June 18, 1983, Sunset April 21, 2021. Ecclesiastes 1:9 · “It is, what it is”

Kimberly DeShazer

2023

Rip cuz Jerome Smith! I hate that you had to leave so soon but you'll never be forgotten! Love ya!

Vintage family photograph of children and adults gathered together by a lit fireplace
The whole family gathered by the fire, back when we were all still together.

Lay-lay J Haywood

In memory

Words can't express how much I miss you.

I wish I had more time with you. Every moment I spent with you was precious and I'll never forget it. I love you big bro, and heaven is lucky to have gained someone like you. I miss you Jerome Smith.

Jerome in a shearling collar leather jacket and blue shirt, looking toward the camera
Jerome, exactly as we remember him.

Naina Dallas

In memory

I just can't! I'm so hurt!!!!! Like nooooo so many memories. They all make me smile. But Jerome Smith, I JUST CAN'T.

Love you Romy Rome.

#RIP I'm praying for everyone…

Vintage photograph of Jerome seated with three family members standing behind him
So many memories. They all make me smile.

Tyara Haywood-Nielsen

In memory

I often wonder what it would be like if my brother was here. Miss you Jerome Smith.

Alayah J Haywood

April 22, 2021

Laid my big brother to rest yesterday. Even though it was hard, I have no doubt in my mind that he is in God's arms in heaven.

I'll miss you so so much and I wish I didn't have to see you go so soon, but God's timing isn't our own. I love my family and I miss you dearly, Jerome Smith. I'll never forget you. Until we meet again.

Family in white seated and standing around Jerome's white casket at the graveside service
The family gathered around him one last time, all in white.

Herbert “DJ” Haywood

April 2021

Missing my brother right now. Can't believe I have to see you Sunday at your home going service.

Jerome playing keyboard with a drummer behind him
Jerome at the keys, doing what he was born to do.
Black and white photograph of Jerome in a tuxedo with a white bowtie
In his element
Black and white photograph of four men in formal dress
The men who loved him
Painterly photograph of Jerome cradling a sleeping baby
A father, holding on